Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Belonging nowhere

People are looking for the place they belong to. They are looking for people they belong to and they are looking for anything that can identify them as personalities and something that can show them who they are and where they are going. And in most cases people always find that place they belong to and they find people who can understand them and so on and so forth. But, there are people who don’t belong any place and so they will nowhere find a place to stop no matter how long they are going. They are lonely people and it is not the loneliness that means no one next to you, but it is loneliness that means no way for someone next to you. There are no people who can really hear this person and there are no people who would really realize him or her and there is no such place in this world he or she can recognize as his or her home. They are people who belong nowhere and they know it and that is why they have already stopped this search, there is nothing o look for for them. They belong to nowhere and it doesn’t matter for them, they agree with such situation…

Voluntary loneliness

Most people are afraid of loneliness they think it is a beast that will kill them. They are afraid of loneliness though they have never faced is. And there are different people, they are polarities for those frightened and they choose loneliness as the best way of life. They never complain about they have no friends and they have no people to talk to, they never complain they are all by themselves and they have actually no one to complain to or about. They are lonely people and loneliness is just what they need of this life. They are people who know that there is no good in friends and those who surround you. No matter what they say the truth is always the same – they come with their rules and they want you to follow these rules because that is how people show their love and respect towards each other. They want you to care about them and they want you to think over things you do in order to avoid doing something that may hurt them. They are people who are cages and there are here to become a cell, and that is why you run away and choose loneliness as freedom.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Like any medicine

Loneliness is like the medicine. You know, every medication is made in order to help you to recover, but there is a strict doze of medication you have to take, in case you increase the doze medication turns into a poison. And the same is true for the loneliness. It is necessary for people sometimes to run away from everyone and everything in their lives. It is important to have a rest and forget about the noise and fuss of this world. People would run mad but for the loneliness that helps them calm down with their thoughts and recover their strengths. But, if there is too much of loneliness for a person it will bring no good. No matter how tough you are and no matter how much you like loneliness you will run mad if there is too much of it. No matter how crazy people in this world are, no matter you should be careful with them you still need them. There was a man who said that loneliness is the greatest thing in the world but only if you have someone to tell about the loneliness is great… so, it may cure you and it may also kill you, just like the medication, remember.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Phenomenon of Loneliness

Humanity sees loneliness as good or bad as what must be fought or, rather, take it, and acknowledges that loneliness overcame modern world.
We know that loneliness was bred by city. Thousands of his clones multiply as its proliferation of and live up to all the big sizes. This happens because in the current industrial technology world dictated by the harsh rules of the game: prism of duties, achieving professional growth and super-fast tempo, make us puppets of the loneliness.
You ever seen the way a big city wakes up? Eternally sleeping and, strangely enough, people go, go, run to their places of work. With all this remains to some extent covered in their own domestic cocoon, inaccessible to others. That is, in a closed area of the «I». Escape from this need, but nowhere - I would say, finding myself thinking that she is not bitter fate loneliness big city.
Do you agree that today's urbanized societies are absorbed into the problem of loneliness? At this point there are hundreds of thousands of voices, in fact, be correct in its own way. Yet most of them support the existence of a partial abandonment of the modern world.
First and foremost, is to understand what - this alone we are talking about?.. This is as I said, big-city loneliness and isolation of individuals. On the final details.
The phenomenon of loneliness is a interesting example of emigrants.
Undoubtedly, that people who have immigrated to other countries, face a state of loneliness. Children and adolescents experiencing adjustment to «new life» booming. The crisis comes in 4-6 months. By this time, or they decide to stay, or are beginning to ask parents to be returned home, to their homeland.
In adults loneliness manifest slightly different way. Initially, until the memories alive, and about as many new, they feel comfortable. Then there is the feeling excluded from life, as if you are forever doomed to remain in the new location. This state is growing, and for the second year of stay in exile is a sense of total abandonment, the need for reliance, etc. Later: severe mental illness in the form of depression or madness.